Fear Of Rejection

Well it really happens alot nowdays, that guys or girls get fear for rejection.

Here are the common points that make any guys or girls get fear for rejection.

1) Negative thinking almost every one has in there mind, before they propose a girl or a boy.

2) Religion differences.

3) Money problems.

4) Age problems.

5) Career oriented.

6) Rich & Poor issues. (maximum this happens alot in india).

7) Family pressure.

8) Love triangle.

9) Loosing good friend (this happens when you want to propose your close friend, but you are feared just because you dont want to loose your old & close friend, this is the common problem between all friends).

10) Beauty & the Beast (if girl is beautiful, but boy is not handsome, they do find nervousness in such situation).


If any of the above tips, you are actually facing in your life,

write your comments here, to get tips for enough confidence,

i will guide you for that.

Tips:- When You Realise First Love

Today i will tell you how you will come to know who is your first love & when you will realise this, as a doctor love my first guidance will be for girls & then for boys.

Girls are very sentimental about all small issues whether its friendship or its love, so girls my first suggestion to you is never be so jeolous or show your sentiments for your partner, this will only hurt you. So now began with my tips for girls.

Tips for Girls:-

1) When you are close to someone you never realise your love, but when you stay far away from him just even for 15-30 minutes you will start missing him.

2) When you see your boyfriend talking to any other girl, but ignoring you, you start feeling jeolous & angry on other girl.

3) You see him in your dream daily.

4) You don't feel like to eat or drink anything.

5) You feel sad when you are alone & you are not able to meet him once in a day.

6) You just love him when he care about you, or start teasing you.

7) You expect him to behave like gentleman.

8) When he treats you like angel, you become happy & feel as if this is a dream comes true for you.

9) Suddenly you start loving romantic movies & romantic songs.


If that is what happens with you girls, that means you are in love & so you need to grab him before its too late, so go & propose that guy today.


Now Tips For Boys:-


1) You have always been in the environment where many girls are there, you always flirt with all girls, but never fall in love them, but there is one girl who is absolutely different then other girls & you think she is special for you.

2) Many girls has proposed you, but you never took anybody seriously because you dont love them, but there is one girl whom you like but you are little feared to propose her because you are confused if its love or not, & whether she loves you or not.

3) You dont like your girlfriend to be with someone else, or going on in someone else's bike or car, you feel she should spend all night & day with you.

4) When you get a big surprise on your birthday from your girlfriend & you feel this is the best birthday you have ever had.

5) You make your girlfriend jeolous by flirting with her best friend, just because she made you jeolous when she was with your friend.

6) You have passion for music & when you play guitar or any other instrument & start singing song, you see your girlfriend everywhere.

7) She inspired you for music & for every activities, she made you cheerful when you had participated in sports & won the race.

8) You like to go promp night only with your girlfriend.

9) If your girlfriend don't like you, when you smoke cigratees or drink beer, you dont drink in front of her, so that she don't feel embarassed.

10) When you always wants to listen to what your girlfriend says & what she likes/ dislikes.


That's the first true love, if any guys are in same situtation as mentioned above, that means you are in love, not only love but its a true love, so if you have not proposed your girlfriend yet, then go now & propose her today. Don't get fear of rejection.

I will post next article tomorrow about "Fear Of Rejection" so that you don't get fear, if got rejected by any girl/boy.

Any questions you have, feel free to ask me here, just click on "0 Comments" & write your question with your name & email address.


Cheers!!!

Enjoy Your Weekends!

Ask The Sexpert

Q1) I am a 22-year-old man. I have sex with my girlfriend once a week and I ejaculate four to five times during sex. Will this reduce my sperm count? I also masturbate every day. I get excited almost everyday and whenever I am excited I force my girlfriend to have sex with me. What should I do in order to control my desire?

A. If your problem is a fear that all your sperms will get exhausted you need not worry — no such thing will happen. It is only you who can control your desire — there is no need to obliterate it.

Q2) I am facing a problem due to my weak physique. My breasts are not well developed. So anything I wear looks like it has been put on a hanger. I have heard about gels that increase the bust size. Do you have any suggestions other than surgery? My parents are also worried about my marriage for this reason.

A. No gel will increase your bust size. Perhaps if you put on weight the fat in the breasts will increase. Strengthen your back and shoulder muscles. The best models in the fraternity have figures like you. If they can carry themselves well, so can you.


Q3) I am a 19-year-old woman. My boyfriend is a year elder to me. We are in a serious relationship. We have indulged in foreplay many times. I am a virgin but my boyfriend refuses to believe it. Is there is a test to analyse virginity? Is there a way through which I can prove this to him, without getting into a physical relationship with him?

A. My advice is stop seeing him. Trust is of utmost importance in a relationship. Have faith in yourself.

Q4) I am a 28-year-old man. I got married a month ago. I have become very dependent on condoms. If I try to have sex without it, my prepuce retracts and pains horribly.

A. It could be the sensitive glans due to which the intense pleasure manifests as pain. Continue to wear the condom to prevent unwanted pregnancy. If you wish to try, apply a small quantity of Xylocaine gel two per cent fifteen minutes earlier and then wash it off, just before foreplay.


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Source:- By Dr. Mahindra Watsa