Fear Of Rejection

Well it really happens alot nowdays, that guys or girls get fear for rejection.

Here are the common points that make any guys or girls get fear for rejection.

1) Negative thinking almost every one has in there mind, before they propose a girl or a boy.

2) Religion differences.

3) Money problems.

4) Age problems.

5) Career oriented.

6) Rich & Poor issues. (maximum this happens alot in india).

7) Family pressure.

8) Love triangle.

9) Loosing good friend (this happens when you want to propose your close friend, but you are feared just because you dont want to loose your old & close friend, this is the common problem between all friends).

10) Beauty & the Beast (if girl is beautiful, but boy is not handsome, they do find nervousness in such situation).


If any of the above tips, you are actually facing in your life,

write your comments here, to get tips for enough confidence,

i will guide you for that.

Tips:- When You Realise First Love

Today i will tell you how you will come to know who is your first love & when you will realise this, as a doctor love my first guidance will be for girls & then for boys.

Girls are very sentimental about all small issues whether its friendship or its love, so girls my first suggestion to you is never be so jeolous or show your sentiments for your partner, this will only hurt you. So now began with my tips for girls.

Tips for Girls:-

1) When you are close to someone you never realise your love, but when you stay far away from him just even for 15-30 minutes you will start missing him.

2) When you see your boyfriend talking to any other girl, but ignoring you, you start feeling jeolous & angry on other girl.

3) You see him in your dream daily.

4) You don't feel like to eat or drink anything.

5) You feel sad when you are alone & you are not able to meet him once in a day.

6) You just love him when he care about you, or start teasing you.

7) You expect him to behave like gentleman.

8) When he treats you like angel, you become happy & feel as if this is a dream comes true for you.

9) Suddenly you start loving romantic movies & romantic songs.


If that is what happens with you girls, that means you are in love & so you need to grab him before its too late, so go & propose that guy today.


Now Tips For Boys:-


1) You have always been in the environment where many girls are there, you always flirt with all girls, but never fall in love them, but there is one girl who is absolutely different then other girls & you think she is special for you.

2) Many girls has proposed you, but you never took anybody seriously because you dont love them, but there is one girl whom you like but you are little feared to propose her because you are confused if its love or not, & whether she loves you or not.

3) You dont like your girlfriend to be with someone else, or going on in someone else's bike or car, you feel she should spend all night & day with you.

4) When you get a big surprise on your birthday from your girlfriend & you feel this is the best birthday you have ever had.

5) You make your girlfriend jeolous by flirting with her best friend, just because she made you jeolous when she was with your friend.

6) You have passion for music & when you play guitar or any other instrument & start singing song, you see your girlfriend everywhere.

7) She inspired you for music & for every activities, she made you cheerful when you had participated in sports & won the race.

8) You like to go promp night only with your girlfriend.

9) If your girlfriend don't like you, when you smoke cigratees or drink beer, you dont drink in front of her, so that she don't feel embarassed.

10) When you always wants to listen to what your girlfriend says & what she likes/ dislikes.


That's the first true love, if any guys are in same situtation as mentioned above, that means you are in love, not only love but its a true love, so if you have not proposed your girlfriend yet, then go now & propose her today. Don't get fear of rejection.

I will post next article tomorrow about "Fear Of Rejection" so that you don't get fear, if got rejected by any girl/boy.

Any questions you have, feel free to ask me here, just click on "0 Comments" & write your question with your name & email address.


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Ask The Sexpert

Q1) I am a 22-year-old man. I have sex with my girlfriend once a week and I ejaculate four to five times during sex. Will this reduce my sperm count? I also masturbate every day. I get excited almost everyday and whenever I am excited I force my girlfriend to have sex with me. What should I do in order to control my desire?

A. If your problem is a fear that all your sperms will get exhausted you need not worry — no such thing will happen. It is only you who can control your desire — there is no need to obliterate it.

Q2) I am facing a problem due to my weak physique. My breasts are not well developed. So anything I wear looks like it has been put on a hanger. I have heard about gels that increase the bust size. Do you have any suggestions other than surgery? My parents are also worried about my marriage for this reason.

A. No gel will increase your bust size. Perhaps if you put on weight the fat in the breasts will increase. Strengthen your back and shoulder muscles. The best models in the fraternity have figures like you. If they can carry themselves well, so can you.


Q3) I am a 19-year-old woman. My boyfriend is a year elder to me. We are in a serious relationship. We have indulged in foreplay many times. I am a virgin but my boyfriend refuses to believe it. Is there is a test to analyse virginity? Is there a way through which I can prove this to him, without getting into a physical relationship with him?

A. My advice is stop seeing him. Trust is of utmost importance in a relationship. Have faith in yourself.

Q4) I am a 28-year-old man. I got married a month ago. I have become very dependent on condoms. If I try to have sex without it, my prepuce retracts and pains horribly.

A. It could be the sensitive glans due to which the intense pleasure manifests as pain. Continue to wear the condom to prevent unwanted pregnancy. If you wish to try, apply a small quantity of Xylocaine gel two per cent fifteen minutes earlier and then wash it off, just before foreplay.


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Source:- By Dr. Mahindra Watsa

Don’t drink at all if you’re pregnant

Don’t drink at all if you’re pregnant or even trying to conceive


Women should not drink at all during pregnancy to avoid harming their baby, according to the latest government advice.

Limiting consumption to four units a week will only minimise any risk to the baby — not remove it.

Ministers will also expect the drinks industry to put warnings on bottles and cans about the dangers of drinking while pregnant.

The policy shift was welcomed by charities and doctors who say that even low levels of alcoholic consumption can harm unborn children.

But others said there was no evidence for the change and were concerned the guidance would cause confusion among pregnant women.

The guidance says: "Pregnant women or women trying to conceive should avoid drinking alcohol.

"If they do choose to drink, to minimise the risk to the baby, they should not drink more than one to two units of alcohol once or twice a week and should not get drunk."

It replaces the old guidance issued in 1999, which said, "pregnant women or women trying to conceive should not drink more than one to two units of alcohol once or twice a week and should avoid getting drunk". Women who are trying for a baby should also abstain from drinking because they will not know for several weeks whether they are pregnant or not.

In an apparent contradiction, the government also insists women who have followed previous guidance have not put their babies at risk. The Health Department says it does not want to alarm those who had followed the previous guidance.

A spokesperson said the department had changed its advice to err on the side of caution and because of fears that women were misinterpreting the previous guidelines and were drinking more than they should.

Deputy chief medical officer Dr Fiona Adshead says, "We have strengthened our advice to help ensure that no one underestimates the risk to the developing foetus of drinking above the recommended safe levels. Our advice is simple: Avoid alcohol if pregnant or trying to conceive. This advice could also be included on alcohol packaging or labels."

However, Sarah Hart, editor of Pregnancy and Birth magazine, says it is. "The message is don't drink more than two drinks and, at the same time, women should avoid alcohol," she expresses.

"It's not been well communicated probably because, although evidence shows heavy drinking is damaging to the foetus, it isn't there for minimal drinking.

"It's a common worry for women, especially if they have been drinking before they knew they were pregnant."

Two thirds of expectant mothers admit to drinking during pregnancy, and one in 20 say they regularly exceed the present limit. Some scientists claim that even very small amounts of alcohol could result in foetal alcohol syndrome, which causes problems including low birth weight, short stature, flattened features, heart and kidney abnormalities, deafness and brain damage leading to poor hand-to-eye coordination and behavioural difficulties. It affects one in 1,000 babies and is the leading cause of retardation in the western world.

A milder form of the condition called Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder has also come to light. It causes attention deficit disorder, hyperactivity and poor coordination. American research has shown that one in 100 unborn babies contract the disorder.

source:- mumbai mirror

Strange Things Can Happen With You, How?

See Below For Tips


1) You meet a guy/girl incidentally for first time & same co-incidents happened with you again 3-4 times, what it is?

God's Message:- god wants you & that guy/ girl to be friends.

2) Love triangle between you, your partner & your best friend, what it is?

God's Message:- so that you choose your best friend. Why only best friend? because he/she understands you, love you, care for you & is ready to sacrifice his/ her love for you. That's the true love.

3) What if your best friend lies to you, what it is?

God's Message:- god wants to take your friendship test to see how much you trust your friend & your friendship can be together for how long.

4) You love your partner, but your family is against your partner, what it is?

God's Message:- god wants to see how strong is your love towards your family & your partner, you need to choose one between your family & your love, whom will you choose? how long your love will exsist.

5) You married a person who don't deserve you what it is?

God's Message:- god wants to tell you that you have done a big mistake by going against your family & choosing a wrong partner for you, you realise your mistake, but now its too late.

6) You are happy with your partner & happily married now for more than 1 year, what it is?

God's Message:- god wants to tell you that you have taken a right decision & your god is with you for every decision you take, & your parents will realise when they will come to know that you are happy with whom you are married too, so your family will also accept your partner as there son-in-law/ daughter-in-law, so don't worry & be happy.

7) You are married to your partner for last 6 years or more, but your partner betrayed your trust & has extra marital affair, so now what?

God's Message:- god wants to tell you that don't loose hope & don't take a wrong step against your partner, have faith in god, this is a small test of your married life, you need to pass this test by not crying but get your partner back from that third person who just want to ruin your married life & is with you partner only for money or to insult you.

8) You dont believe in god, so what it is?

God's Message:- god wants to tell you that Nobody in this world is perfect, if you dont trust in him, no problem he will create a situtation one day, when you have to believe him, when someone close to you will go in such situation where only your prayer to god will help that someone, that will be the day when you realise that god is there in this world, you need to wait for that correct time & that right day.

9) You do believe in god but still you face lots of problems in your life, you are loosing your faith from god, now what to do?

God's Message:- god wants to tell you that always share your problems with others, this will help your all problems get solved by others, if you don't take help & live with your ego, you will face more problems but god will not help you, untill unless you dont leave your ego & your wrong attitude.

10) You have finanical problems, your partner has lost everything in his business & now no one is there to support you & your partner, what is this?

God's Message:- God wants you to realise that your partner has lost money in his business because he has choosen a wrong business, he should do something which will be good for his business, ask your partner where he went wrong? did his business partner ditched him? did he trusted a person, whom he shouldn't? he was not serious for his business plan? did he choose wrong person for wrong department? what went wrong, ask your partner.


Anything else if you find it strange, just click on comments & write your strange experiences, that has not mentioned here & we will tell you God's Message.

Tips- Never Trust Strangers On First Chat

1) First time when you make friends online, dont trust someone immediately, this will harm you & your identity.

2) Never share your mobile number, email address, residential address, exchanging your real photos (NEVER EVER DO THIS)

3) On Web or Wap there are many people who are cheaters, you may not know who is good for you as friend or as your love partner.

4) Security is more important for everyone, as much possible, never tell truth about yourself about anything on first chat, it is good if you hide about your real identity.

5) If any strangers tells you to chat on Web Cam, dont go for it, because you may never know if that person is scammer or got your photo with him, he can misuse your photo by doing MMS Scandal, this happens alot on Internet, so Our ADVICE is not to share yourself on Web Cam.


If you are a victom of anything that is mention above, share your experience here & give your tips to others, just click on comment & write your experience & give tips for what others should do it for there safety.


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